Thursday, December 23, 2010


why so serious? the famous phrase from the JOKER movie gives people an inclination to think about things in a different light. however instead of being more positive in their outlook people generally prefer to be sadist and enjoy being in gloomy state of sadness. i often see many of my friends posting sad posts and pictures on their social networking walls. please have a look on the kind of pics i often see all around:

 some interesting status messages :
  • i think being alive z nt much of use ...isnt it..??????????????
  • you said you couldn't stand to see my heartbroken.........So when you broke it,Did you close Your eyes
  • ab toh bas life kat rahi h colg mein...
  • life is unfair, get used to it
  • love only hurts
  • winner and looser both stand alone ,whats d difference
  • things are meant to be used and people are meant to be loved bfut the irony is that people are being used and things are being loved.
  • life is tough
there are numerous such examples which keep popping up every now and then out of frustration by people.
perhaps by posting such sadist things they want to convey the loneliness or other unhappy feelings in their lives. they think that people by reading such comments will show sympathy for them and share their sorrows. people nowadays want to be surrounded by negativity and if at all there is some positiveness ,they are just not ready to accept it. For them earth is a hellish place where everybody is supposedly their enemy and mean no good for them.
i wonder why people have to behave in this way when there is so much beauty in the world. its very easy to notice even a slight negative element and exaggerate it . people find it hard to acknowledge even the greater joys in their lives and take them for granted with no special significance. i would suggest everyone to watch "An AMERICAN BEAUTY" and perhaps then people will realise how beautiful our lives are. its just a matter of changing our outlook. The conventional way of looking only at the half empty portion of glass perfectly shows our current attitude towards life.
spreading negativity can only result in more sadness. just try noticing the little happy elements in your lives and you will find that you are the happiest person on earth. why worry about the future or lament the past when you have an exciting present to live your life.
Now again have a look on the above pics and then look down to see for yourself how delighted our mind becomes when we see something joyful.


  1. true....... We are negative people welcoming only negative thoughts, seeking negative company to talk negative things. Life has so many colors and we are colour blind to all happy colors. So many reasons account for same, like we do value monatry things more than the things which really matter in our life. Somedays back, i read an article in OUTLOOK, it said that we are now worshipping Godesss Laxmi alone and it has been told in Hindu mythology that worshipping Laxmi alone results in destruction. Earlier she used to be worshipped along with God kartikey/ganesha/saraswati. That destruction could be of anyform like the things which you mentioned in your article.
    Nice work. Will love to read more of you.

  2. sahi hain bhai..
    Iliye main har baar lite as status msg rakhta hun..
    but sala tu usme v gaali deta hain :P


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